Top 3 Things That Are Holding You Back From Success

Top 3 Things That Are Holding You Back From Success

When we focus more on fear we stand still.  Fear can show up in many forms:
- Procrastination:  Delaying starting because of the fear things won’t turn out the way you want them to.  I find I stand still when I have too much to do and I don’t know where to start.  I really honestly don’t believe procrastination is an issue.  It is either we don’t know where to start or we are fearful that things will not turn out the way we want them to.  
- Lack of Confidence:  This took over my life for decades.  
I believed that I was not good enough.  
I believed that life was supposed to be hard. 
I believed that I would always struggle.  

And because of those beliefs I did not feel worthy enough to share purpose, my reason for existing with the world. 
- Analysis Paralysis:  I see this with clients ALL the time.  We have unlimited access to learning.  We could send every moment of everyday learning and we would still not put a dent in all of the world’s knowledge.  Or even feel 100% prepared.  When I see clients not taking action, the most popular excuse is they don’t feel they are prepared.  They say they don’t have the money, they say they need a certification.  They say if they had x they would be successful.  

Friends if you are going to be fearful about something or let “what ifs” fill your brain, think about how you feel if you don’t do it.

2. Your Community
This is has simplest solution but maybe not an easy one.  We are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with.  It’s a fact.  If you aren’t where you want to be in life look at the people you spend the most time with.  Where are they?  What do they spend their time doing?  And more importantly where is their mindset.  I am not saying break up with your significant other, or change your friends, cut your parents out of your life but what I am saying is find people who are going in the same direction as you and find a way to spend more time with them. 

3. Your Mindset
You will never have success, if you aren’t confidence.  You will never have success if you don’t learn to love life.  And you will NEVER have success if you cannot find the good within the bad.  Once you learn to love life, work with what you have, you will find that things will start to fall into place. 

Quick story,
I’ve dated Chris for 9 years.  I’d been dying to get married ever since I was 17 years old.  I wanted a ring when I worked in fine jewelry I had wanted a dress when I worked in the bridal industry and I was forever waiting.  I found myself disappointed as special occasions, holidays and birthdays passed and no proposal.  One week after I realized I loved my boyfriend, I loved our life, and a ring and piece of paper wouldn’t change any of that guess what happened.  This shift in mindset is the reason we got engaged.  I believe you have to be willing to accept your life now, love it, be grateful for it, for you to gain everything you desire. 

Fear, Confidence, and Mindset are three things that are keeping you poor, forcing you to be unhappy, and holding you back from success. 

If it is your desire to become successful let’s put together an action plan to help you find ultimate success and your own freedom.  Send me an email and we will set up a discovery call to get you closer to success TODAY. 


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